{"id":283,"date":"2022-09-20T08:24:51","date_gmt":"2022-09-20T06:24:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/helperz.ro\/blog\/https-blog-helperz-ro-ce-este-bullyingul\/"},"modified":"2023-12-05T10:19:57","modified_gmt":"2023-12-05T08:19:57","slug":"ce-este-bullyingul","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/helperz.ro\/blog\/ce-este-bullyingul\/","title":{"rendered":"Ce este bullying-ul \u0219i cum gestionezi acest fenomen"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Bullying-ul este un cuv\u00e2nt auzit tot mai des \u00een ultimii ani. \u00cen general, victimele acestui fenomen sunt copiii \u0219i adolescen\u021bii, care pot fi marca\u021bi profund de o experien\u021b\u0103 \u00een care domin\u0103 dezechilibrul de putere.<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00cen acest articol, vei afla concret <strong>ce este bullying-ul<\/strong>, cum \u00eei poate afecta pe copiii \u0219i cum po\u021bi s\u0103 intervii \u00een gestionarea consecin\u021belor pe care le atrage acest fenomen complex.<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Bullying-ul, form\u0103 de h\u0103r\u021buire ce provoac\u0103 disconfort<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00cen termeni simpli, bullying-ul poate fi definit drept o agresiune efectuat\u0103 \u00een mod repetat \u0219i menit\u0103 s\u0103 provoace disconfort. Este vorba despre agresiunea verbal\u0103, fizic\u0103 sau psihologic\u0103, exercitat\u0103 de c\u0103tre o persoan\u0103 sau un grup de persoane asupra unei victime. Acest comportament se poate manifesta sub diferite forme, precum amenin\u021b\u0103ri, glume r\u0103utacioase, comentarii sau violen\u021b\u0103 fizic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Bullying-ul este un fenomen \u00eent\u00e2lnit la ordinea zilei \u00een \u0219coli. Pentru a face un coleg s\u0103 se simt\u0103 umilit \u0219i st\u00e2njenit \u00een fa\u021ba celorlal\u021bi, unii copii abuzeaz\u0103 de dezechilibrul de putere sau folosesc orice alte mijloace pentru a pune \u00eentr-o lumin\u0103 nefavorabil\u0103 victima.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Lovituri, dezv\u0103luiri de informa\u021bii, tachin\u0103ri, critici, excluderea din cercul de prieteni sau r\u0103sp\u00e2ndirea de zvonuri neadev\u0103rate \u2013 acestea sunt c\u00e2teva dintre cele mai frecvente forme de agresiune ce pot fi \u00eencadrate ca bullying. \u00cen func\u021bie de comportamentul adoptat, scopul agresorului (<span style=\"color: #2e333c;\">bullies<\/span>) poate fi distrugerea reputa\u021biei victimei, sabotarea bun\u0103st\u0103rii acesteia, cre\u0219terea \u00een ochii celorlal\u021bi prin eviden\u021bierea unor diferen\u021be de putere \u00eentre el \u0219i victim\u0103 (dn punct de vedere financiar, fizic etc.)<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Cyberbullying-ul, h\u0103r\u021buire \u0219i amenin\u021bare \u00een mediul online<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Copiii &#8211; \u0219i mai ales adolescen\u021bii \u2013 nu sunt str\u0103ini de tehnologie \u0219i de avansul acesteia. Mul\u021bi dintre ei au deja conturi pe platforme de socializare, unde pot deveni foarte u\u0219or victime ale cyberbullying-ul. \u00cen esen\u021b\u0103, acesta difer\u0103 de bullying doar prin faptul c\u0103 se desf\u0103\u0219oar\u0103 \u00een mediul online \u0219i nu implic\u0103 putere fizic\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u0218i \u00een acest caz, exist\u0103 numeroase forme de manifestare: umilirea victimei prin \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219irea de fotografii jenante \u00een spa\u021biul public, trimiterea unor mesaje r\u0103u inten\u021bionate (cum ar fi amenin\u021b\u0103ri) sau intimidarea prin diverse comentarii. Acest fenomen relativ nou a ap\u0103rut odat\u0103 cu dezvoltarea \u0219i r\u0103sp\u00e2ndirea tehnologiei, internetul fiind locul unde oricine \u00ee\u0219i poate ascunde identitatea.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">Semne c\u0103 un copil este victim\u0103 a bullying-ului<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Acum c\u0103 ai o idee general\u0103 despre <strong>ce este bullying-ul<\/strong>, important e s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai seama dac\u0103 adolescentul sau copilul t\u0103u este victim\u0103 a acestui fenomen, pentru c\u0103 majoritatea victimelor evit\u0103 s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 despre experien\u021ba care le-a provocat stres, disconfort \u0219i umilin\u021b\u0103. Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva dintre cele mai comune semne c\u0103 un copil este agresat la \u0219coal\u0103 \u00een mod repetat:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><em>dureri de cap, dureri de stomac \u0219i pierderea apetitului<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Agresiunile provoac\u0103 stres \u0219i anxietate, care se pot manifesta inclusiv pe plan fizic, prin dureri de cap \u0219i dureri de stomac. Dac\u0103 un copil se confrunt\u0103 tot mai frecvent cu acestea, poate fi vorba despre un disconfort psihologic, \u00eent\u00e2mpinat \u00een mod repetat la \u0219coal\u0103 sau \u00een cercul de prieteni. Schimbarea obiceiurilor alimentare este un alt poten\u021bial semn al faptului c\u0103 un copil trece prin experien\u021be nepl\u0103cute la \u0219coal\u0103, despre care evit\u0103 s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><em>tendin\u021ba de izolare social\u0103<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Una dintre consecin\u021bele bullying-ului este tendin\u021ba de izolare social\u0103 \u0219i adoptarea unui comportament solitar. Copilul care este victima unor agresiuni la \u0219coal\u0103 nu mai vrea s\u0103 participe la activit\u0103\u021bi de grup, nu mai este interesat sau entuziasmat de ie\u0219irile cu prietenii sau chiar este exclus din cercul de prieteni;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><em>evitarea interac\u021biunilor cu familia<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mul\u021bi dintre copiii care sunt victime ale bullying-ului sufer\u0103 \u00een t\u0103cere \u0219i nu \u00ee\u0219i exprim\u0103 sentimentele. Reprimarea suferin\u021bei emo\u021bionale nu face dec\u00e2t s\u0103 le \u00eengreuneze situa\u021bia \u0219i interac\u021biunile cu ceilal\u021bi, inclusiv cu cei mai apropia\u021bi. Ace\u0219tia evit\u0103 s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103 cu p\u0103rin\u021bii despre ceea ce li se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 zilnic la \u0219coal\u0103 \u0219i pot deveni emotivi atunci c\u00e2nd activitatea \u0219colar\u0103 devine subiect de discu\u021bie.<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span style=\"font-size: 16px;\">M\u0103suri pe care le po\u021bi lua pentru gestionarea bullying-ului<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Consecin\u021bele bullying-ului sunt numeroase:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">probleme de s\u0103n\u0103tate,&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">izolare social\u0103,&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">sc\u0103derea \u00eencrederii \u00een sine,&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">apari\u021bia depresiei,&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\">sc\u0103derea perfoman\u021bei \u0219colare etc.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00cen acest sens, p\u0103rin\u021bii trebuie s\u0103 fie aten\u021bi la comportamentul copiilor, s\u0103 le ofere aten\u021bie \u0219i sprijin pentru a \u00eei \u00eencuraja s\u0103 se deschid\u0103. De asemenea, ei trebuie s\u0103 colaboreze cu profesorii \u0219i s\u0103 le vorbeasc\u0103 despre situa\u021bia pe care o experimenteaz\u0103 copilul.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Un psihoterapeut poate interveni pentru a \u00eel ajuta pe cel mic s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i manifeste sentimentele \u0219i pentru a contribui \u00een mod activ la gestionarea consecin\u021belor pe care fenomenul de bullying le atrage pe termen lung.&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cen acest articol, vei afla concret ce este bullying-ul, cum \u00eei poate afecta pe copiii \u0219i cum po\u021bi s\u0103 intervii \u00een gestionarea consecin\u021belor pe care le atrage acest fenomen 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